I help time-starved moms of littles refill their energy with 20-minute micro-hobbies—no babysitter, no guilt.

Remember: 20 minutes is the start, not the ceiling. We begin small to win today—then we stretch the window as your season allows.

Hi, I'm Shanae 

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I’m a mom who lost my ‘me’ for a while- nap windows, bedtime sprints, constant interruptions.

The shift was 20 minutes: tiny, finish-tonight projects plus calm boundary scripts.

It wasn’t about talent or hours. It was a timer, a sketchpad, and building upon those 20-minute windows.

The 2-minute Story

Small wins beat perfect plans

20 minutes counts- even if you stop mid-flow.

Scripts create time; guilt shouldn't

20 minutes gets you moving; partnership and planning grow the window.

What I believe 

Start Here

How this site helps

Make something small- even after bedtime.

Start Tonight

Use a Script

See the Plan 

Claim your 20-minute window calmly.

A 4-week plan in 20-minute blocks.

"Trying to learn a new hobby was intimidating- but thinking of it as 20-minute blocks of time was easy and gave me a sense of accomplishment. I'm slowly starting to feel like myself again."- Kim, 2 kids under 3

So why a pen name? 

I publish under Shanae for privacy, but every story and guide here is mine—field-tested in a home with littles. You’ll always get specific, try-tonight steps, not theory.

Ready to steal back 20 minutes a day? 

Get the 20‑Minute Starter Kit.
Five start‑tonight micro‑hobbies, 3 guilt‑free boundary scripts, and a printable weekly plan.
It's quick, it's fun, and it's all about you.

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